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Love all of this, but especially these lines. "And soon it won’t matter if what you write is always great or even good. It just matters that it’s yours."

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Done. And done. Thank you, Joy. 🙏🏼💖

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Yes yes yes. Running through the woods as if your life depended on it.

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“You have to love your life enough to write it down.” This line is so clear and true, it shook me a little bit to read it. Now I’m thinking back to all the times I thought I was in the muck of writer’s block, but in reality I just didn’t love the life I was living—didn’t want to document my discontent. Sheeeesh, Joy. Illuminating stuff. Thank goodness for pigeons.

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Love this. I read it just after I published my latest essay, but this has been the conclusion I came after some nerve-wrackingly slow writing this week. It’s been hard to sit down to write, but I find that building back the habit of writing every day has made it easier. Here’s my latest post, if you’d like to read it: https://www.practicespace.blog/p/no-19-in-a-routine-rut

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Amen, Joy. I have no magic routine. I post a short story to my blog weekly. A self-imposed deadline. I often wake with writing running through my head. Later it gets typed to Scrivener. It works for me. If there is any magic element, it is having a view out through a window. Greenery and distant trees. Thanks for posting!

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Love your life enough to write it down 💛💛💛

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THIS. Is somehow so validating?? And also inspiring (but no surprise there). So much of my writing happens between 5:30 and 7:00 am in bed🤣 I used to feel like it meant I was lazy but I’ve just learned to roll with it

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ALSO: “You have to love your life enough to write it down. You have to write at inopportune times, in sometimes unsexy, unstructured ways” 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

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I do the same thing! I write in bed, first thing in the morning, annoyed that I have to get up and pee and break away from the page.

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Just pre ordered your book! ❤️❤️❤️ Can’t wait for April!

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Ohhhh my gosh yeees! So glad I found you on here. ☺️🦋

My day starts at 430-5am in bed writing draft style thought on my phone... I’m actually working on the “back to school so my schedule is better AND harder” post right now.

Hope your 🐈‍⬛ finds fun with her pigeons. 🐦

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I started my Substack a few days ago because I suddenly felt compelled to write. I kind of hope that means I’ve got to a point where I love my life enough to write it down! I’ve never ever considered myself to be a writer, so I don’t know what’s going on!

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unsexy & unstructured for one, please!

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As always Joy, your words are a delight to read. Necessary salt indeed. Almost all of the favourite parts of the words I write come to me at the inopportune times & once I realised this & stopped resisting the inconvenience, I found more delight in writing than I’d anticipated. 💛

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Yes. I found my best writing happens when I’ve got the intense urge, often at very inopportune times.

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"The feeling that if I don’t write in this precise instant—while the world is still young and urgent—I won’t write at all." is going to stick. love your frankness and humor in this.

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Exactly. This is perfectly put, and exactly it.

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