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Thank you for this wonderful and generous offering, Joy.

I've only just played around with the first lesson and from it came this:

My son walked in and froze.

There's literally a cricket on your bed.

Did you know, I said,

crickets bring luck.

I went to get a jar.

I liked luck sitting on my bed

But maybe it preferred outside-

the place my daughter says

smells like home.

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This was so fun, thank you! Here’s my lil ditty.

Angels peel oranges

on the new quartz.

Espresso brews,

the open fridge ding ding dings

toast burns

a hundred fresh crumbs gather on

the half-gone tile.

While I sweat and spin,

those angels giggle and blaze-

Hallelujahing their perpetual song…

Mom, mom, mom!

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I love this

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This was an excellent lesson, thank you so much! This is what I came away with:

My chocolate pointer rubs her face with her paws everyday

I lay there thinking about the sweetness of death

Grief gurgling and sputtering inside me

Her soft face and fat paws create static

Reminding me of electricity

Pinging around in my brain

Waiting for a new pathway

She grunts with satisfaction

Like humans do when they get a good itch

Or when strong hands rub my shoulders

Did you know that in a human’s life, you could have half a dozen dogs

All that love oozing out of you

Falling apart like a crumbling building

But in a dog’s life, they usually only get one human if they’re lucky

Once I heard that dogs know how long you’ve been gone by how much of your smell is left in the air

Telling time through scent

Their wet snouts wiggling in the air

Waiting for us to come back and open up the day for them

Wagging their whole bodies, like a deep inhale after being held underwater for too long

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Joy what an absolute gift. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us. I can’t wait to dive in fully 💛

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Thank you Joy!!! Your writing class from before has inspired me so, and this was a beautiful refresher. Here's one from recently that has your elements! Here it is:

The Reassurance of A Mosquito

I tell them to stick together.

To watch out for each other

To listen to the eldest.

They nod, glance at the window,

the door,

the sun,

then back at me.

Who knows if they will listen?

From the window I watch them leave.

Swinging ponytailed. Lithe Limbed. One scarlet sequined hijab.

All they have to do: run up the hill, one stop sign, then two. A left. Then freedom. The park.

It’s just an hour.

Still my shoulders scrunch up an inch.

What do they know about the world and its dangers?

What could they possibly know?

I take comfort in the fact that the three girls are together. Did you know only female mosquitoes bite?

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I think Tiny Tenders are the best thing I've learned from you. Not because of how they improve my writing (even though they do), but because of how they've changed the way I look at the world. 💓

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I get comments from people a lot about how I look at the world, the things I'm noticing that they aren't. Poetry can be contagious when we name the tiny tenders <3

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Thank you. Can't wait to dive in. ❤️

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Excited to hear what you think. xxxx

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Wow, wow, wow. Thank you, Joy.

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I cannot wait to jump in. ✨

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I loved these exercises - thank you for sharing them Joy!! I was rolling up my yoga mat after class yesterday and saw some purple stains on the bottom of my mat from fallen mullberries. These tiny purple stains transported me. A tiny tender that reminded me of my old backyard 2000 miles away last summer before the tree was cut down. I was still thinking about those tender little stains as I was falling asleep so I sat up in bed and wrote this down:

Sinking into sleep I puzzle at why

the dried mulberry blood splotches

on the bottom of my yoga mat remind me

of mud under my childhood fingernails-

both remnants of nature's whimsy?

As my eyelashes gently brush the threshold

between consciousness and release

my limbs tingle with memories of childhood

mudpies under grandma's mulberry tree

Stretching my legs long in cotton sheets

only to find my dry wintered heels catching

in the soft white abyss

Is this the adult equivalent of drawing

with cheap rose art crayons

that scritch and scratch as they stretch

across the papery white abyss of childhood?

The jarring little pricks

are like identical hiccups of electricity

slicing through tree rings

of hardened growth

Somewhere inside this tired supine woman

is there still a little artist with scratchy pictures spilling out

of her uncalloused hands?

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Loved the master class, Joy!

Here's my little practice poem.

Green sleeves wipe her cheeks.

“You've done this too”? She whispers

Hopeful I have some answers.

Grief like morning tongue

Swollen in my mouth

Waiting to be scraped clean.

Heartache, his children's toys

clasped warmly in cold hands.

Widow to widow I lie.

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Soul-wrenching!

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Thank you for this, Joy. This is the first poem I've written in years, and that is something. I'm on Week 2 of The Artist's Way and giving myself permission to make "bad" art since, to me, that's better than not making anything at all.

Antlers

Yesterday I saw a buck in the

middle of our country road

stock still

as if made of sandstone

They’re more elusive than does

someone told me recently—

their tangle of antlers an easy target for

eager trappers

A heavy crown they won’t shed until

hunting season’s over

Come spring, they’ll fall to the forest floor

with a gentle thud

new growth already budding at the temples

like the wild ramps underfoot

I wonder if he’ll feel lighter after

I wonder what I might shed to feel lighter, too

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Joy, I’m new to your work, but I absolutely loved this class and want to dive in more!

Here’s my final poem to the prompts. Still unsure about the last line….

Recently, I saw out of the corner of my eye, a bull mounting a cow in a field. I thought I imagined it, but no. Surely enough, this majestic beast had leapt up to take his pleasure from the unassuming cow. Who knows what she felt. I drove too fast to see more, but what a strange thing to witness at 70 miles per hours. Is it grotesque that I wanted to pull over and observe this possible assault, to be a voyeur in their intimacy? Was it tender, I wonder, or was it just business? The bull’s pleasure is as old and steady as the weathered mountains behind him, the product of millions of years of evolution. My own lust has faded into pale prairie grass, guarding myself from new sensation as the same winds brush over me, wheel ruts scar my fields from Manifest Destiny’s wagons. A temporary respite before the promised land.

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stumbled open this lesson, came up with this so thank you:

A branch hangs, haphazardly

amongst swaying kin holding them close –

still, attached.

Vines cry themselves down,

ignoring, even dressing,

the bifurcated tree-body yelling

“Why?” when wind coaxes

the tears to the ground, falling

amongst autumnal mountains

a child should have kicked open

and fell into.

I play

no part

in tending to the garden.

Let mountains rise in my wake.

The branch will fall one day

when I’m not watching.

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How generous. Thank you so much!

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Thank you!

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