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Carah Gedeon's avatar

My #1 hated phrase is “girlboss”. Please. You’re offending feminism everywhere by saying this 🤮. Loved this piece, Joy, I share in many of these annoyances though if I may, I have to push back against sammie..that one’s just fun to say!

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Joy Sullivan's avatar

Damn, gutting. Would you say "sammie" or "sando" though? I need to know. xx

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Carah Gedeon's avatar

I do in fact say sammie. I hope this doesn’t change your opinion of me, but if it does, I humbly understand

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Sarah Ward's avatar

I saw a meme recently that said something to the effect of "forget being a girl boss. I want to be a girl moss, lie in the forest and become covered in moss." That I could get behind.

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Laura Humphrey's avatar

oooh agreed, Girl Boss is yeckkkkk

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Sue Moore's avatar

Yes! See also “boss babe” and “step into your power”.

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Juliana Meyer's avatar

YESSSSSS

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Chris Stanton's avatar

Please tell me you enjoyed no more moments with that guy. They should confiscate his phone, if not his thumbs.

Lately, people have been using "double-click" to refer to exploring a topic further. "I like that idea. Let's double-click on that next week." I want to right-click them all into the trash.

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Shelly Stallard's avatar

OH NO🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 new corporate “words” for me to hate!!!

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Chris Stanton's avatar

I’m so sorry I had to be the one to break that to you

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Graham Landi's avatar

😧 I hadn’t previously considered myself capable of murder, but if anyone asks me to ‘double-click’ on something that isn’t a mouse or touchpad I may surprise myself.

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Chris Stanton's avatar

I get it. The first time I heard it, I thought it was a joke. Then it spread like a fungus. It’s gross.

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Mikala Jamison's avatar

i have to believe you made this up!!

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Chris Stanton's avatar

I wish, Mikala...I wish

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Claire's avatar

That is appalling!

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Chris Stanton's avatar

It really is

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Emma Kriskinans's avatar

Omg yes. I heard this the other day and couldn’t stop the face I made. It’s just so awful.

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Laura Humphrey's avatar

Referring to your friends as your "Tribe"

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Kimberly Gee's avatar

Who said TRIBE???? 😠😵‍💫

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GS Hall's avatar

When I hear these phrases I don't get frustrated with others instead I become internally jaded because it becomes clearly apparent I have taken a wrong path and ended up in a place I don't belong.

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Laci Hoyt's avatar

I genuinely despise all the shortened trendy forms of words: biz, convo, totes, inspo, perf, on and on it goes. Why can’t anyone be bothered to use a whole word anymore? Why!!!???

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Andrea Toole's avatar

"Convo" and "inspo"! I forgot about those ones when I left my comment.

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Lizzie Purkis's avatar

Kiddos Littles and furbabies...yuck! I'm sorry but "hold space for" has had all the tenderness wrung out of it 😔

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Paul McCutchen's avatar

A friend of mine was a Star Trek fan and called his children "Carbon based human units"

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Joy Sullivan's avatar

Immediate jail time for your friend.

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Beth Shelburne's avatar

I love this piece so much.

"It is what it is" makes my head explode.

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Lisa Conquet's avatar

YES! This one just makes me feel rage!!!

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Megan Marolf's avatar

Love this post. And hate the demand to ‘live laugh love.’ Also ‘life hack’ makes me want to vomit!

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Sarah Ward's avatar

I literally cannot with any version of live laugh love. These horrible placards have no place in our homes, take them down now!

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Lizzie Purkis's avatar

Yes life hacks ... a list of things you already knew but just couldn't be bothered to sit down and write it all out!

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Emily's avatar

agree with you Megan

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Danielle Coffyn's avatar

Joy, this is exactly the kind of message I want in my inbox on a Monday morning. Thank you for making me laugh. I will spend the rest of the week seething anytime someone tells me their calendar is up to date.

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Holly Garber's avatar

If you hate inappropriately abbreviated words you'd hate Australia. We love a 'sambo' as much as we love turning every possible word, name and phrase into some form of shortened slang 😂

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Samantha Rosenfeld's avatar

Yes, I also came to say that brekkie is a legitimate word in Australis!!

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Rebecca Marie's avatar

Hahahahah came here to say this. Straya!

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Holly Garber's avatar

Straya! Exactly.

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Ashley Olien's avatar

I should be working but reading this was a far better use of my time! I always love a good rant in the morning. It's possible that I'm an occasional offender and do use phrases like "The husband". Initially I used it as a joke but somehow it's crept into my vocabulary. I think my most hated term is currently "butt-hurt". It just sounds gross. Why would you say such a thing? Seems so condescending. I also dislike the words moist and panties. My husband has started combining them just to watch me squirm. Thanks for starting my week off right!

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Claire's avatar

I also hate "panties" and your husband sounds similar to mine.

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Gayle Beavil 🇨🇦's avatar

What a great way to start the day! Laughing my “ass-off” by the piece , and these comments, too. Love it. Two things that come to mind that drive me nuts are: “ I COULD care less”…. They mean the absolute opposite and I don’t see how they can’t see how ridiculous this is. I could care less mean that they actually care quite a bit!

And, the word “season” is being way over used right now. In this “season” of my life, or “I’m going through a tough season, right now. “

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Frank Dent's avatar

Perhaps “season” is being used in the sense of a sports season, which generally overlaps the calendar seasons. Teams and fans have good seasons and bad seasons. I think that’s an interesting usage.

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Graham Landi's avatar

A UK thing but, people started to shorten ‘the cost of living crisis’ to ‘cossie livs’. This gave rise to a plethora of similar atrocities such as, ‘cocky t’ for cocktail, ‘genny lec’ for the general election, ‘botty b’ for bottomless brunch, and my personal favourite, ‘nervy b’ for a nervous breakdown. It all made me want to smash things up with a hammer.

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Vanja Vukelic's avatar

Having a nervy b reading this! 😂

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Kimberly Gee's avatar

I’m so sorry. 😢

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Margaret Ann Silver's avatar

Awesome. Mine are “preggers/preggo”; “besties” (from influencers); “OBSESSED” as a way of saying you like something a lot, and (I know this might be kind of offensive) “ICYMI.” It makes my brain hurt to translate it every single time.

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Emily's avatar

No idea what that stands for

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Ashley Olien's avatar

Preggers 🤮

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Anna Sayburn Lane's avatar

It's probably too late, but when did 'gift' become a verb? You're given a gift. Yes, I'm a pedant. And I die inside when someone refers to their 'holibobs'. My nails hurt writing it.

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Kimberly Gee's avatar

Gift as a verb? No. Also wondering when it became accepted. Especially loathsome: gifting yourself. 👎

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Sue Moore's avatar

Holibobs 🤢

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Emma Kriskinans's avatar

I came here to say holibobs.

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Frank Dent's avatar

In Seinfeld, they coined regift (to give a gift someone gave you that you didn’t want) and the noun form, regifter.

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